Who doesn’t want to be in charge of their outcomes? I think it’s safe to say that if you’re here, you want to take charge of making changes in your life. You want to take an active role in your life experience. To take ownership of your success requires a few things.
I propose that we unlink deserving from anything we want to achieve. The concept of deserving is outdated and irrelevant. We should be focusing more on congruence and alignment with the abundance and worthiness that is inherently within each of us.
Honoring your decisions and commitments builds momentum and strength and the internal conviction that “I keep my commitments.” Before long, you’ll have an attitude of “What else can I do? What’s next?”
Change is hard. You might feel like it’s not the right time because it feels so uncomfortable. But there’s no such thing as a right time when your brain hasn’t done it before. Embrace the discomfort to embrace the growth. You and your vision are worth it!
Is it any wonder that most of us have a hard time embracing our personal desires and dreams when we’ve been conditioned to feel guilty and selfish if we expend too much energy going after what we want? In today’s episode, we scratch the surface of Clare Grave’s work on values levels and why Values Level 5 is so pivotal.
You have a choice. You can stay where you are, or you can choose to grow. Either choice will have challenges and discomforts. I invite you to choose the path that helps you expand. Yes, there will be discomfort in the growth, but there will be benefits and newness on the other side of that growth.